Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Clothing Drive this Saturday


Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park is hosting it's second annual clothing drive Saturday, May 11th from 10am to 1pm. Visitors bringing an item of clothing for donation will save 50% on their ground fees.

We heard there was a need for various items at local shelters and, with the community spirit that is Bare Oaks, we decided to rise to the call. Items collected on Saturday will go to one of three places: Yellow Brick House, Blue Door Shelter, or to the Goodwill.

The Yellow Brick House and Blue Door Shelter are looking for new clothing, shoes, steel toe work boots, blankets, and towels. They are also seeking certain items to maintain operations such as liquid soap, diapers, and kids lunch snacks.

Yellow Brick House provides four core services for all:  emergency shelter, transitional housing, outreach services and public education. The two emergency shelters offer safes place for women and children fleeing their abusive relationships. Reta’s Place, their transitional housing facility, provides housing units to women and children transitioning from the emergency shelter to living independently.

Blue Door Shelters, located in York Region, provides safe, supportive shelter and services for people who are homeless or at risk of becoming homeless. They operate three, no-fee, emergency shelters for families, men and youth.

Each shelter provides: help to find permanent housing, accommodation and food, supportive counselling, referral to community services, life skills learning opportunities, and 24/7 accessibility.

The rest of the clean reusable items dropped-off at Bare Oaks will go to Goodwill. They use their revenue to fund their core mission: creating work opportunities for people facing barriers to employment, including persons with disabilities, youth at risk, the chronically unemployed, aboriginal people and newcomers to Canada.

The members of Bare Oaks are cleaning out their closets and will be donating what clothing they do have (we do have to come out for groceries every now and again!) to these community based organizations. Care to unclutter your closets and help the community at the same time? Then drop by Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park on Saturday, May 11th between 10am and 1pm. There will be volunteers ready to collect your donations at our designated tables on the front lawn.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Volunteer Day and Members' Meeting

Naturist Volunteers

Spring is the time for our annual volunteer day. We really appreciate the multitude of people willing to give up their time to make Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park a better place. While there are many people volunteering all year, this is the day we set aside for a massive volunteer effort to get things ready for the season. We are told that it is also a fun day that many people look forward to.

Volunteer Day -  Saturday May 4, 2013

10am to 3pm

  • Everyone is welcome! Lunch will be provided, free of charge, for all volunteers.
  • There will be projects suitable for all abilities and levels of ambition.
  • Non-members who volunteer will not be charged any day fees. (please register at the office)

Euchre Night - 7:30pm

The Bare Bistro hosts their regular Euchre Night

Members' Meeting - Sunday May 5, 2013

10am to noon

All members are invited to come and get an update on what's happening at Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park and ask questions.

Yoga - 6:30pm

All Yogi levels welcome. $10 class fee, $2 mat rental, $40 package of 6 classes

Yoga was developed as a way to achieve physical, mental, and spiritual balance which is completely in harmony with naturism. The best way to practice it is in your natural state free of the restrictions and distractions of clothing. More info...




Thursday, March 28, 2013

Gymnophobia - Fear of Nudity

Body ShameMost people in North American society appear to suffer from a phobia of nudity – either their own or of seeing that of others. The problem with this fear is that is leads people to be uncomfortable with their own bodies. It results in them being ashamed, embarrassed, and even offended by their own image. The emotional reaction can negatively impact self-esteem and self-confidence.

Fear of nudity has an official name – Gymnophobia.

MedTerms Medical Dictionary

Gymnophobia: An abnormal and persistent fear of nudity. Sufferers of this phobia experience undue anxiety even though they realize their fear is irrational. They may worry about seeing others naked or being seen naked, or both. Their fear may stem from anxiety about sexuality in general, from a fear that their bodies are physically inferior, or from a fear that their nakedness leaves their bodies--and their personalities--exposed and unprotected.

"Gymnophobia" is derived from the Greek "gymnos" (naked) and "phobos" (fear). The word "gymnasium" comes from the Greek "gymnasion" (a place for athletic exercises) and the Greek "gymnasein" (to train naked).

Sound familiar? This description is enough to conclude that most of the North American population suffers from some level of Gymnophobia.

But let's look at a more detailled and official definition:

DSM-IV

The DSM-IV is the short name for the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders 4th edition published by the American Psychiatric Association. It is the standard classification of mental disorders used by mental health professionals.
Diagnostic criteria for 300.29
Specific Phobia
    1. Marked and persistent fear that is excessive or unreasonable, cued by the presence or anticipation of a specific object or situation (e.g., flying, heights, animals, receiving an injection, seeing blood).
    2. Exposure to the phobic stimulus almost invariably provokes an immediate anxiety response, which may take the form of a situationally bound or situationally predisposed Panic Attack. Note: In children, the anxiety may be expressed by crying, tantrums, freezing, or clinging.
    3. The person recognizes that the fear is excessive or unreasonable. Note: In children, this feature may be absent.
    4. The phobic situation(s) is avoided or else is endured with intense anxiety or distress.
    5. The avoidance, anxious anticipation, or distress in the feared situation(s) interferes significantly with the person's normal routine, occupational (or academic) functioning, or social activities or relationships, or there is marked distress about having the phobia.
    6. In individuals under age 18 years, the duration is at least 6 months.
    7. The anxiety, Panic Attacks, or phobic avoidance associated with the specific object or situation are not better accounted for by another mental disorder, such as Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (e.g., fear of dirt in someone with an obsession about contamination), Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (e.g., avoidance of stimuli associated with a severe stressor), Separation Anxiety Disorder (e.g., avoidance of school), Social Phobia (e.g., avoidance of social situations because of fear of embarrassment), Panic Disorder with Agoraphobia, or Agoraphobia Without History of Panic Disorder.
Here, the only exception is that most people don't recognize "that the fear is excessive or unreasonable" because the phobia has become normalized by society. As a result, the fear of nudity is not one that "interferes significantly with the person's normal routine, occupational (or academic) functioning, or social activities or relationships" because gymnophobia is institutionalized. We design our architecture to Indecentcompensate for this phobia. (e.g. separate change rooms, shower cubicles, dressing rooms in stores, etc…) We have created a whole set of rituals and culture around this phobia. We teach our children about "private parts" and "modesty". We treat nudity as “dirty” in order to justify the phobia. Thanks to the TV show Seinfeld, the concepts of "good naked and bad naked" have entered popular culture - although we always had a version of it. (it's OK for attractive young women to be naked for the pleasure of others) We talk about nudity being a “personal thing” to be kept for those intimate moments with our partners. All of these traditions are very well constructed to justify the phobia and to prevent people from having to deal with it.

From a very young age, children are indoctrinated into these rituals and attitudes toward the human body. There is no such thing as natural body shame. Even if parents do their best not to impart body shame, the rest of society, through customs, peer pressure, and media, will more than compensate for their efforts. Over time, the messages of fear and shame lead to the development of an instinctual, emotional reaction to nudity.

Further evidence of gymnophobia is that people often feel anxiety at the mere thought of being nude. They don't actually have to do it – they just have to think about it. Just talking about it can cause people to feel embarrassment. Have you ever noticed that discussing nudity causes people to react emotionally? Some just turn red and giggle. Others react with disgust or anger to justify their emotion.

If we take the example of another well-known phobia, claustrophobia (the fear of enclosed spaces) and compare it to gymnophobia it is easier to see the similarities. For example, a person might say “I’m not comfortable being in elevators, I prefer to take the stairs" and most of us would recognize that as an irrational fear. However, if the same person visits a clothing-optional beach and says “I’m not comfortable swimming naked, I prefer to wear a bathing suit” it now seems like a normal reaction. Yet there’s no rational reason to wear a bathing suit.

Strangely enough, the mainstream world accuses naturists of being obsesed with nudity. Yet most naturists are dressed most of the time. It is the "normal" people who can't make the choice. Their view of the nudity and the human body may be normal but it is definitely not natural or rational.

Phobias can be treated. Of course, before a person seeks treatment they must realize that there is a problem. The American Psychiatric Association says “A phobia that interferes with daily living can create extreme disability and should be treated.” Since most of the world accepts gymnophobia as normal it doesn’t seem to interfere with daily life. Thus very few believe that there is any need for treatment.

Most phobia therapies can be summarized with these strategies:
    • Desensitization to the phobic stimuli (ironically sometimes called “exposure therapy”)
    • Progression in slow, small steps
    • Association with relaxation & reward
    • In some extreme cases, medication is prescribed to reduce the level of anxiety
So for gymnophobia, regular visits to a naturist environment could be considered theraphy! While it might make you a healthier person, try to claim that on your health insurance plan.


From the Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park webpage.

"Body Shame" photo by Djuliet (Creative Commons License)
"Indecent" photo by Lora Mathis (used with permission)

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Some Worthwhile Area Events


Here are a few things to do near (not at) Bare Oaks:

9th Annual Cabin Fever Reliever Silent Auction (March 23)

  • Lots of great items to bid on. Last year, there were many great deals!
  • Plus appetizers, entertainment, draws...
  • Tickets: $20.00 per person
  • Mount Albert Community Centre, 53 Main Street
  • Saturday, March 23rd Door opens at 7:00pm
  • All proceeds go to support the Family Place in Mount Albert.

Mount Albert Mom to Mom Sale (April 6)

  • A Mom to Mom Sale is an indoor sale where families can rent a space to sell their gently used children’s outgrown items to other Moms and Dads. This can include clothing, toys, accessories, furniture, maternity wear, etc.
  • To be a Mom to Mom vendor and sell your gently used items, please contact The Family Place at 905-473-5929 to reserve your space.
  • Saturday, April 6th, 2013 from 9:00am to 1:00pm.
  • Mount Albert Community Centre, 53 Main Street
  • All proceeds go to support the Family Place in Mount Albert.

4th Annual East Gwillimbury Women's Show (April 13)

  • Vendors, demonstrations, auction, prizes, gift bags for the first 300 guests...
  • Tickets: $5 per person
  • Saturday, April 13th, 2013 from 10:00am to 4:00pm.
  • Holland Landing Community Centre, 19513 Yonge Street
  • All proceeds go to support the Southlakes Cancer Centre

Friday, March 15, 2013

A Poem





Bare Oaks


there exists a place on earth

not unlike the garden of Eden

its abundant greenery and exotic wonders
release the imagination
ignite free thought

I come here to escape

layers slip away
I stand bare
feel no shame

stripping insecurity
whipping out self adoration
flaunting a massive character
expose truth

embrace lumps, bumps, skin, hair

know
wholeness
and beauty





outside these confines
attractiveness is a layered mask
hiding reality 

they have eaten rancid fruit
gained neither knowledge nor power
and paradise has been lost




By Emily, 17, staff member at Bare Oaks in the summer of 2011.
Note that the alignment is intentional as she imparts additional meaning through it.


Sunday, March 10, 2013

Last Chance for France


Many people have expressed interest in the group trip to France. Since the interest appears to be there but the commitment hasn't been made, we've extended the deadline to March 22nd.

We have enough people for the trip to go ahead. But there are still a few spaces left. This will be the last extension as we need to commit to a final number for the accommodations.

This is a very affordable vacation! 10 days in France visiting both the Bordeaux region and Paris during Bastille Day. Details at: http://www.bareoaks.ca/index.php/en/montalivet-trip.html

Departures have been organized from the airports in Toronto and Montréal. However, you can join us from anywhere. People have already booked from other locations in North America.


The travel agent organizing the trip is Pauline, one of our members and the owner of Nakations.ca/TPI. Contact her for more information by email at info@nakations.ca or by phone at +1 (705) 294-1545



Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Bare It For Books


ReBlog from bareitforbooks.ca:


Happy Bare It For Books launch day, everybody! We are so thrilled to welcome you to our newly designed website, and equally thrilled to let everyone know that our sexy little calendar project is now up and running in earnest. Let’s all give a big round of Internet applause for the authors who will be baring it all in the name of literature for our 2014 calendar:
Angie Abdou – Ms. January
Trevor Cole – Mr. February
Farzana Doctor – Ms. March
Dave Bidini – Mr. April
Miranda Hill – Ms. May
Daniel MacIvor – Mr. June
Yasuko Thanh – Ms. July
Terry Fallis – Mr. August
Sachiko Murakami – Ms. September
Vincent Lam – Mr. October
Saleema Nawaz – Ms. November
Yann Martel – Mr. December
With cover illustration done by Sarah Leavitt.
We’d like to take this moment to thank each and every one of the authors who have graciously agreed to appear in our 2014 calendar, as well as those authors who will be appearing (hint, hint) in our Bare It For Books calendar in 2015. We couldn’t have gotten this far without you, and we are so grateful for your continued enthusiasm and support.
We’d also like to thank all of the people who have helped BIFB get to this moment – we wouldn’t have gone anywhere without you, too! You can see a comprehensive list of our supporters on this website. Much love and thanks to you all.
So what’s the next step in the Bare It For Books project? Why, pulling that calendar together, of course! As of today, you can hop on over to our Indiegogo campaign page and have a peek at all of the lovely swag you can score when you donate to the campaign. We are aiming to raise the bulk of our printing and production costs through our Indiegogo fund, so please spread the word about Bare It For Books far and wide, and get yourself some swag!

Friday, February 8, 2013

Big Nude Boat in Maclean's Magazine

Maclean's Magazine
(Canada's national weekly current affairs magazine)
February 6, 2013
by Alan Parker

3,000 passengers and lots of sunscreen on largest naked cruise in history


Sometime in the late afternoon on Saturday, Feb. 9, 2013 — an hour or so after the cruise ship Carnival Freedom leaves its home port of Fort Lauderdale, Florida — the ship’s captain will make an announcement on the ship’s public address system.

The captain’s message will go something like this:

“Ladies and gentlemen, we are now in international waters. Please feel free to disrobe.”

And with that, approximately 3,000 passengers aboard the Carnival Freedom will doff duds and begin eight days of the largest naked cruise vacation in the history of the world.

Continue reading:

Revised link: http://www2.macleans.ca/2013/02/09/the-largest-clothing-optional-cruise-in-world-history-is-about-to-set-sail/

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Naturism on Murdoch Mysteries


This week's episode of Murdoch Mysteries on CBC involved a "naturist colony".

Murdoch Mysteries is a drama, currently set in 1900, that revolves around Detective William Murdoch of the Toronto Constabulary who investigates murder using forensic techniques of the time. (think CSI from 100 years ago) The show is currently in its 6th season.

While 1900 is a bit early for naturism in Canada, it is not completely out of the realm of possibility. They must have done their research well because they were fairly accurate about the philosophy – right down to the gruff German leader. (although at times, his accent sounded more Scottish than German)

Watch the show here:
http://www.cbc.ca/player/Shows/Shows/Murdoch+Mysteries/Season+6/ID/2331962768/

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Naturist Vacation to CHM Montalivet & Paris, France

Water Park at the CHM Montalivet

This year, Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park is introducing a new event: a group trip to France!

We have partnered with one of our members, Pauline from Nakations.ca, to organize a fun and affordable naturist vacation to France.
The beach on the Atlantic Ocean in the CHM Montalivet near Bordeaux, France.

While the modern naturist movement is generally accepted to have started in Germany, it was France that perfected the large scale naturist resort. The combination of warm southern France, beaches on the ocean, and the French passion for vacationing naturally combined to create massive naturist resorts.

The oldest of these resorts is the Centre Helio Marin Montalivet – best known as the CHM Montalivet. With over 3,000 sites (tent, RV, cabins, and bungalows) and as many as 15,000 people per day, Montalivet is certainly one of the largest naturist resort in France. (you can listen to a podcast about Montalivet) The commercial centre in the middle of the resort has 22 shops and restaurants.

Karen and Stephane enjoying a morning coffee and fresh bread in one of the restaurants at the CHM Montalivet.
After World War 2, the naturist movement around Paris had quickly returned and was growing. Two of its leaders, Christiane et Albert Lecocq, realized that naturists needed a vacation destination. After a bit of searching, they ended up leasing some beachfront on the Atlantic near Bordeaux. Thus, the CHM Montalivet was founded in 1950.

Walking to the beach on the Atlantic Ocean at the CHM Montalivet
Montalivet was not just a place to relax. It was also a place to live a naturist life and develop the philosophy. To this day, discussions and lectures are an integral part of Montalivet. Some of the greatest thinkers in the French naturist movement have been members. In 1953, the French naturist federation (FFN) and the International Naturist Federation (INF) were created at Montalivet.

Now you have a chance to spend a week in the CHM Montalivet and experience European naturism!


    Paris, France
  • July 5-16, 2013
  • Airfare from Toronto or Montréal included. (other departure points are also possible)
  • 7 nights at the CHM Montalivet.
  • 3 nights in Paris.
  • Optional excursions in both Bordeaux and Paris
  • Affordable! Discounted group pricing on accommodations and airfare. All costs included except for your meals which you can cost-effectively prepare yourself in your bungalow while at Montalivet.
  • Family oriented – children's pricing included.
  • Maximum of 50 people (capacity of the bus) which is as few as 25 couples and less if they have children. So book soon if you want to be included. First come, first served! Last date for booking: Feb.28 or when the maximum is reached.
Photos, pricing and other details at: