Wednesday, 23 May, 2012

Family Weekend


The start of an annual tradition – a weekend of events with an emphasis on family fun!

Activities, challenges, contests, entertainment, crafts, games and all-around fun for kids of all ages.

Family Weekend
July 21-22, 2012

Discounted rates are available for visiting families. (If staying overnight, reservations are strongly recommended.)

Naturism is a family activity that is good for kids: Read about raising Children in Naturism.

Saturday, 19 May, 2012

Volleyball




There's a lot of volleyball going on at Bare Oaks. 

Last year was our first year to have regular casual volleyball games on Saturdays and Sundays at 2pm. Then our first tournament of the year was the 5th Annual Greater Toronto Naturist Volleyball Tournaments. That was followed by a mini-tournament held during the FCN Naturist Festival in August. Finally, we added a second tournament – the inaugural Lee Baxandall Memorial Volleyball Tournament championship. (August 26-28, 2011)

This last tournament was created after a Southern-Ontario club decided to stop hosting their popular annual competition and another Toronto-area club that used to have a large championship was sold to private interests. While the need for another tournament in the region was obvious, naming it was initially perplexing. But when we realized that many venerable sporting championships are named after people, the honour was instantly obvious.  The sadness at Lee's premature passing was still fresh in our minds and we were pleased to be able to commemorate him this way.

A perpetual trophy was commissioned that briefly outlines his accomplishment. It reads: 
Lee Baxandall (1935-2008) 
Lee Baxandall began his work as a naturist activist in the early 1970's. With a background in writing and publishing, Lee’s naturist passion led him in 1976 to form the Free Beaches Documentation Center, which he located in his hometown of Oshkosh. By 1980, Lee had founded The Naturist Society (TNS), and TNS had presented its first Gathering for naturists. ‘Clothed with the Sun,’ the flagship publication of TNS in its early years, was renamed ‘Nude & Natural,’ or more simply, ‘N’ magazine in 1989. 

Lee was also the initiating force behind other familiar naturist organizations. In 1983, it was a Baxandall idea that led to the TNS special interest group that would become Gay Naturists International. In 1990, Baxandall jump-started the Naturist Action Committee as an adjunct to TNS. The Naturist Education Foundation followed in 1993. 
For the decades of the 1980s and 1990s, ‘Lee Baxandall’s World Guide to Nude Beaches and Resorts’ was the standard companion for those seeking information on naturist destinations throughout the world. Each edition of the World Guide reflected Lee’s naturist philosophy, not only for growing numbers of naturists, but also for the benefit of an expanding mainstream audience.

Six teams competed for the Baxandall Trophy and had a great time playing. But only one group could reach the top. The winning team was called "Naked Ice" and featured Chris, Derek, Janice, Jim, Kevin, and Weldon. Each one received a 2011 medal and their names were the first ones engraved on the Baxandall Trophy which is displayed in the Bare Oaks office. Fifty years from now, the trophy will be much larger because of all the winning teams but they will always be there as the pioneers of the tournament.

Volleyball continues in 2012 with 2pm games on Saturday and Sundays. The games are casual but serious competition will happen at the 6th Annual Greater Toronto Naturist Volleyball Tournaments (June 29 - July 1) and the second Lee Baxandall Memorial Volleyball Tournament (Aug. 17 - 19) 


You can also find out about other tournaments at:


Wednesday, 16 May, 2012

Now OPEN: Pool, Restaurant and Volleyball



Yesterday, the York Region Department of Health Inspector gave us the green light to announce that the pool is open!!

The picture shows the first people to jump into the pool this year. But the water was cold. While the sun is shining on the solar heaters, it is a slow process. So we will be giving them a bit of a boost with the propane heater in time for the weekend. The weather forecast predicts temperatures as high as 29ÂșC!

The Bare Bistro is back to summer hours so you can have a drink or a meal any day. Go to the restaurant's website for hours and other details

Also, regular volleyball games are back every Saturday and Sunday at 2pm. Everyone is welcome to join in!  Don't know how to play?  That's OK, the volleyball aficionados will happily teach you.


Monday, 14 May, 2012

Cambium Presentation Saturday


This coming Saturday (Victoria Day long weekend) there will be a presentation on Cambium, a new naturist village being developed on the north coast of the Dominican Republic. The presentation will be held in the New Forest Room (downstairs in the clubhouse) at 5pm.

Here's the description provided by the representative:
An evening of Discovery.  Join us for an informative session about a new naturist development in the Dominican Republic.  Cambium representative, Samantha Gruen, will be at Bare Oaks on Saturday, May 19th @ 5:00pm to delight you with news about Cambium and some great purchasing opportunities.

Please note that this presentation is being done by an independent organization and has no connection to Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park. The fact that it is being presented at the park should not be interpreted to be an endorsement in any way. If you are interested, it is up to you to ask the tough questions and make your own decision.


Sunday, 6 May, 2012

20/20 Report on "Extreme Parenting"



Why does the 20/20 interviewer assume that there's something wrong with children being nude or seeing their parents nude? As we know, being ourselves is natural.

Instead of searching for experts who can tell you how wrong it is, why not look for research on the topic? There are a multitude of scholarly research studies on this topic in psychology and sociology that have shown that children raised with social nudity benefit from the practice.

Instead of assuming that children in a naturist environment are somehow at risk, why not consider the facts first? Clearly keeping kids dressed doesn't prevent abuse. Naturist environments tend to have stronger feelings of community than "normal" society. It is a group and family activity, which means that children are rarely left alone and vulnerable. Individuals with bad intentions within naturist environments are generally easier to identify. But most importantly, children raised as naturists tend to be more self-confident and not ashamed of their bodies. That means they are much more likely to say no and tell their parents when someone does things to them that they don't like. Doesn't that sound like a healthier way to raise children? It may seem like "extreme parenting" but naturists believe that it is actually the most normal way to be.

I realize that the topic causes people to react instinctively and emotionally instead of rationally. But I would expect a reporter to be able to get beyond that.

The Bare Oaks website has an entire page devoted to the topic of children in naturism. It contains answers to all the above questions and more:


Note: If the embedded video above doesn't work, you can view the 20/20 episode here: http://abcnews.go.com/2020/video/reamers-nudist-camp-family-naked-children-parenting-16283741

Friday, 4 May, 2012

Showers are OPEN


The renovated showers/washroom/sauna area is finally done!!  That took a lot longer than we ever anticipated (nearly 2 months) but the resulting change is quite dramatic! The new showers feature both a rain head and a handheld. And unlike the old ones, this new shower area is bright, open and barrier-free. It's been designed with everyone in mind. From the handgrips for older folks to the low handheld holder that makes it easier to wash down the kids. Come by this weekend and enjoy!

And a reminder that tomorrow (Saturday) is Volunteer Day. Everyone is welcome! Lunch is provided, free of charge, for all volunteers. There are projects suitable for all abilities and levels of ambition. Non-members who volunteer will not be charged any day fees. (please register at the office)


Thursday, 19 April, 2012

When Being Nude Means a Death Sentence



On International Women's Day 2012 (March 8) a group of women launched The Nude Photo Revolutionaries Calendar in support of Aliaa Magda Elmahdy.

In October 2011, Elmahdy, a 20-year old Egyptian university student, posted a full-length nude photo of herself on her blog in a protest against free-expression and her society's attitude towards women.

The reaction was, not surprisingly, intense and polarizing.  Elmahdy's blog received millions of visits. She became the target of enumerable death threats. But she also received extensive support from individuals and women's rights groups including a group of Iranian women and men who risked death by posing nude with slogans against Islamic rule.

The calendar project is the brainchild of Maryam Namazie. On her blog she explains that "with Islamism and the religious right being obsessed with women’s bodies and demanding that we be veiled, bound, and gagged, nudity breaks taboos and is an important form of resistance." The calendar was designed by Toronto's Sonya JF Barnett who co-founded SlutWalk. (a movement that has since expanded worldwide)

The other women featured in the calendar are mother and daughter Anne Baker and Poppy Wilson St James, teacher Luisa Batista, We are Atheism Founder Amanda Brown, atheist bloggers Greta Christina and Emily Dietle, FEMEN activist Alena Magelat, photographer Mallorie Nasrallah, actress Cleo Powell, freethinker Nina Sankari , writer Saskia Vogel, and mother Maja Wolna.

To purchase a copy of the Nude Photo Revolutionary Calendar via Paypal, click below. Your support is important. BUY A CALENDAR TODAY! Proceeds will go towards supporting women’s rights and free expression.

Note: Because some websites like Facebook would censor this blog if we showed full pictures of nudity, none of the images referenced are shown. However, if you follow the links, you can see all the original photos.

Sunday, 15 April, 2012

100 Years Ago

Dressed appropriately for the beach in Toronto 100 years ago.
All this talk about the 100-year anniversary of the sinking of the Titanic has made me think about the history of naturism. You can see in the various photos of the time just how restrictive and uncomfortable clothing was. Not even the period's bathing suit offered a respite. In their 1931 book, Among the Nudists, Frances and Mason Merril observed:
"...there never was such a thing as a comfortable bathing suit. Wool scratches, cotton grows heavy and sags as soon as wet, and silk becomes slimy and nasty to the touch; either a suit is so tight that it cuts, or else it is so loose that is flaps and bags as soon as you enter the water."
When you remember that those bathing suits usually covered you from ankle to neck, that description becomes even more vivid. So the initial motivation for naturism/nudism was comfort and health. John Langdon-Davies, (1897–1971) the British author and journalist, wrote The Future of Nakedness in 1929. In it he makes the argument that the future of humankind is to be naked:
"Science, always the destroyer of good breeding, has discovered or rediscovered the uncomfortable fact that nakedness is a medicine for the sick and an inspiration for the healthy; that clothes, far from being the ramparts of a beleaguered city, are the investing army striving to encompass its fall; that a coat, a pair of trousers, and a waistcoat are barriers between the starving, hard-pressed tissues within and the relieving army come to raise the siege."
Of course, that was certainly an outrageous thought in Europe at a time where a man never displayed his bare chest and a woman would not dare to even show her ankles in public. Yet by the time the Titanic sank, Heinrich Pudor (under the pseudonym of Heinrich Scham) had written Nackende Menschen (Naked People) in the 1890s and Richard Ungewitter had published Die Nacktheit (Nakedness) in 1906. (which reportedly sold over 90,000 copies)

When the Titanic hit that fateful iceberg at 11:40pm, Paul Zimmerman's Freilichtpark Klingberg, north of Hamburg, Germany, had already been in existence for nearly a decade. It was founded on a philosophy of nude healthy living: fresh air, sunlight, frequent physical exercise, vegetarian diet, no smoking and no alcohol. Jan Gay described her visit with Zimmerman at Freilichtpark in her 1932 book, On Going Naked. She complained of the regimented exercise schedule and the "unsatisfactory" vegetarian meals. The Merrils were far more appreciative in their description:
"We had come to Klingberg for a few days–to see it. We had stayed a month, leaving at the last possible minute and curtailing our stop in Hamburg to one day. We had sacrificed not only such an inveterate habit as meat eating, but several weeks of our long-planned tour, for a physical rest and benefit, a mental peace and joy that we had never found before. For a month we had played like children."
At that time already, you can see the developing difference between mere nudists and those with a naturist philosophy. At the end of their book, the Merrils observe:
"The naturists, advocating a life in accordance with natural laws, consider the practice of nudity a useful hygienic measure, though not the most important."
But regardless of whether it was naturism or nudism at that time, the foundation of the movement was physical. The psychological benefits (acceptance of self and others) came later. Perhaps people didn't have as much body shame back then. Or it could be that they didn't recognize until later the emotional damage that this shame creates. It is certainly clear from the photos and writing of the day, that pre-WWII naturists and nudists sought physical perfection. (as did mainstream western society) But while today we recognize the damage that body shame causes, it doesn't seem to be getting any better. Everyday we are bombarded with messages that make us feel ashamed and insecure about what we look like. Media sexualizes and objectifies our bodies. More than ever, we need naturism as an antidote to all those ills that afflict our world.



Saturday, 7 April, 2012

"Naked, With Children" Brouhaha

Globe and Mail article by Aviva Rubin


On April 1st, Toronto Blogger Aviva Rubin wrote an article in the New York Times about how they are casually nude in their home with their children.

Apparently she was unprepared for the intense reaction she received. In a follow-up column in today's Globe and Mail she explains how she is "used to my parents providing advice and constructive criticism on my parenting methods – whether I agree or not, they've earned the right to weigh in. But it seems that putting “Naked with Children” in public gave the whole world that right."

I've posted a comment from a naturist's point of view.  Since the G&M lists them by default based on the number of "thumbs up", please feel free to give it one if you agree:
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/parenting/yes-i-am-naked-around-my-children-but-what-is-it-my-critics-want-to-cover-up/article2394531/comments/


Sunday, 1 April, 2012

Volunteer Day & Members Meeting

Naturist Volunteers

As announced in September, the members' meeting was moved from the fall to the spring because it works better for everyone.

Spring is also the time for our annual volunteer day. We really appreciate the multitude of people willing to give up their time to make Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park a better place. While there are many people volunteering all year, this is the day we set aside for a massive volunteer effort to get things ready for the season. We are told that it is also a fun day that many people look forward to.

Since the people who volunteer are often also the ones who come to the members' meeting, it made sense to combine the two.

Saturday May 5, 2012


Volunteer Day - 10am to 3pm


  • Everyone is welcome! Lunch will be provided, free of charge, for all volunteers.
  • There will be projects suitable for all abilities and levels of ambition.
  • Non-members who volunteer will not be charged any day fees. (please register at the office)

Members' Meeting - 3pm to 5pm

All members are invited to come and get an update on what's happening at Bare Oaks Family Naturist Park and ask questions.


Euchre Night - 7:30pm to 11pm

The Bare Bistro, along with Marc & Suzy B., host their regular Euchre Night